Thursday, April 28, 2011

Life is....grand!

Paradise Beach Villa Mauritius...
Leora Villas Mauritius....

AMA Ashram India...
Airport Kochi India...

Grotto...

Lérmitage Franschhoek...

Vishoek...

The Views Wildernis...

Oubaai...
Cape Grace Yacht...

En route to the Cederberg....

"...I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable and racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing." Agatha Christie

This most glorious year was (I thought) all about being spoiled and doing the "out of this world" stuff. Nothing wrong with saying I'll only be 40 once in this lifetime, so let me have champaign for breakfast...or eat dessert before dinner...or take a nap after lunch (or sometimes before!). I was on a mission to recite a checklist of grand activities for every month of 2011. And it was AMAZING!!! I have to capture a few highlights:

January - Om namah shivaya India!
February - Cape Grace Yacht en another honeymoon in Mauritius....the 7th one :)
March - Grotto, watching the sun set whilst doing a salute to the sun - Namaste
April - Vishoek....having dinner overlooking the harbour, better than Greece.
May - Kragga Kamma! Blazing fire places, red wine en red meat! I finally decide not to eat animals anymore - This has been a long time coming, love the taste of meat, but I cannot justify eating an animal who may have suffered during its life (or death) to provide me with (questionable) nutrition...so here we go!
July - teaching at GSB (love it!!!!) and then Mauritius....8th honeymoon :)
August - Work - MIGRATION, MIGRATION, MIGRATION! And my heart is breaking, my love and I are changing lanes and we are missing each other completely :(
October - A couples retreat, where I meet the formiddable Marina, a Goddess Retreat in Langebaan with soul sister Venita and guru Caroline and then to Grotto for Johan's 40-something. I meditate every morning on the beach with one eye open, watching Johan frolick naked in the surf...ommmm...uhmmm
November - Teaching at GSB (amazing programme with Absa) and finishing at WFS after 7 years - a truly special company. I cannot wait for the beginning of a new cycle: 2012 will be my year one. It feels like I am done with a part of my journey and I am starting a very different new one which will be all about personal growth and setting up for my next career...

...and during the festive season I start assessing the past year, as we all do. I feel a small shift, a realisation. Yes, life is GRAND, but not for the activities I listed above, although they were lovely. It was a beautiful year because of my best friends' hands on my back in a yoga class, that look from JC, the sms from my parents to say they love me...the small things are the stuff that makes life grand. I am blessed :)

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

And then we were 40.....


My best friend and I embarked on THAT trip in January 2011....The trip I am referring to is the one we always think about, but never have the courage/money/time/friend to do it with? So all of a sudden, all the elements came together: We were turning 40 and were on our way to India! Then I got really scared....

It always sounded so virtuous and spiritual to say that one is planning a trip to an Ashram in India. It is a very different story to have it looming over you as you scramble to buy the last filtration bottle/vitamin B (and other) injections/GO-Girl (let me not get started on this pink beauty!) and your dearest start sending you links of blond abductions in over-populated foreign countries etc. etc.

An astrologer belatedly told me last month that I will (or maybe already did!) undertake a trip of a life time with a friend (who could also be my sister!) and it will not be my normal comfortable 6* outing with my beloved....it will be HARD but it will change my life! Thanks for telling me AFTER the fact ;)

And so the day arrived on the 1st of January 2011. They say pictures say a 1000 words. It took me 4 months to find the words... It will certainly take a few posts to get it out of my system, so please bear with me as I unravel ungracefully.

Om namah shivaya x